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Bond Over Beauty! 10 Tips For Mom & Tween de/by Erika Katz
“If you can spend a little extra time with your daughter bonding over
beauty, it will open the door to a great conversation,” Erika
emphasizes as the #1 thing she wants to share with moms everywhere.
“When your daughter comes to you and says ‘mom I want to wear makeup’ or
‘mom I want to shave my legs,’ instead of saying ‘no, not till you’re
15,’ ask her why she wants to. And hold her hand through it. As a mom
it’s your job to guide her–this is the fun part!”
So, how exactly should you bond over beauty with your daughter? When
it comes to spa and skin care rituals, how young is too young? Which
products are best for tweens? I chatted with Erika for a while, and
here are 10 takeaway tips for how to take advantage of beauty with your
little lady:
1. HAIR: Many
girls have different hair than their moms, so it’s very important to
learn how to do your daughter’s hair. Your hair may neeed to be washed
every day, but maybe hers needs it every other day. Use hair time as
bonding time–girls love when moms put their hair in ponytails or hot
rollers.
2. LIP GLOSS: Girls
love lip gloss – whether she’s 5, 10 or 25, she feels good putting it
on. There are lots of sparkly, flavored lip glosses that are fun for
little girls. She’s not going to look done up in lip gloss but she’ll
feel beautiful and mature. Erika recommends
Covergirl Wetslicks Fruit Spritzers Lipgloss, which feels like a lip balm and has a hint of shimmer to give a tween shine with a nice fruity taste for only $5.99.
3. MASCARA: If
she’s really into makeup at a young age, get a clear or neutral mascara,
the same color as your daughter’s hair, so she can feel glamorous but
look natural.
4. BLUSH AND OTHER MAKEUP: Walmart is soon to launch a new beauty brand specifically for tweens and even younger girls, called
GeoGirl,
all with light pigmentation for young girls to get the full makeup
experience without risking looking overdone. A good blush to try now is
Maybelline’s Mineral Powder which comes in nude, pink or peach and is very light with no oils, talc or fragrances to irritate the skin.
5. AT-HOME PEDI: Do
a pedicure for your daughter at home. Make it a special experience for
her. Get a little bucket–you can even use a baby bathtub they send you
home with from the hospital, soak her feet, put some great bath salts
and bubble baths in there and do her nails.
6. THE SALON: “I
started bringing my daughter to the salon 5 – it’s cheaper than a
babysitter and there’s nothing more fun. That’s the whole point of being
a mom! You can take her to the salon and put her hair in a ponytail.”
If you bring your daughter to a salon, Erika suggests always bringing
your own tools to avoid any germs from the utensils.
7. FACIALS AND ACNE: Facials can start as early as puberty–at 16 or whenever she starts getting pimples, Erika says. Also, she recommends
Neutrogena SkinClearing Blemish Concealer which dries up pimples while it covers. If she doesn’t have pimples, a good option is
Neutrogena’s 3-in-1 concealer for eyes to hide dark circles or a freckle she’s self-conscious about.
8. MASSAGE:
Erika’s (adorable) son Stone is 10 years old and has been begging for a
professional massage, but Mom thinks it’s too young—she says 14 is a
good age to start, if you have the money to do it. ”I think it is fine
to have a light facial massage by a technician in front of mom or a hand
and foot massage with a mani-pedi,” Erika says. “However, I do not
think a ten year old should be taken to a a private room, nude, and
massaged by a masseuse who typically works on adults. A masseuse who
does not specialize in children could possibly work the muscles too
deeply and hurt the child. Best leaving the massage to mom or dad so
the child is comfortable and safe.”
Psst: I asked Stone how he knows he wants this professional
massage so badly… and he told me a secret: Once he got one for 10
minutes in a hotel, and his dad found out but they didn’t tell mom.
Shhh!
9. WHAT ABOUT DADS? Dads can bond over beauty too! Erika says this is her favorite question and
most popular blog post.
The key for dad? Humiliate yourself. Make a mask at home, put cucumbers
on your eyes, do facials together and take silly pictures. Show her
you’re going to get down and dirty. Learn how to do her nails. Make lip
gloss by using Crisco and kool-aid. If dads take the time to do the
girly things she’s interested in, she’ll feel you’re really listening to
her and think you’re really cool.
10. CREATE A DAILY SKIN CARE RITUAL:
Start young to get your daughter into healthy skin habits at an early
age–this is all part of the bonding too. Use a little wet sterilized
cotton to cleanse skin, and always moisturize before bed. It’s not that a
5-year-old needs moisture, but washing her face and moisturizing will
get her in good skin habits early. Use a Eucerin or something
fragrance-free, something light before bed. Always do a patch test on
her arm to make sure she’s not allergic.
Happy bonding!
